I met a guy online and we only went on two dates so far. The first date he claimed he didn’t have money, so i paid and the meal wasn’t cheap, it was at an expensive restaurant. We met in the city that day. The second date I went by Metro north train to visit him upstate. I don’t have a vehicle, but he does. He was supposed to see me in Queens and he had a death in his family,so he had to go to Baltimore for the funeral. I have not seen him in 3 months. He just texts me everyday. He doesn’t seem to interested in making an effort to see me, so should I end the communication with him.
Psychologist Erich Fromm maintained in his book The Art of Loving that love is not merely a feeling but is also actions, and that in fact, the "feeling" of love is superficial in comparison to one's commitment to love via a series of loving actions over time.  In this sense, Fromm held that love is ultimately not a feeling at all, but rather is a commitment to, and adherence to, loving actions towards another, oneself, or many others, over a sustained duration.  Fromm also described love as a conscious choice that in its early stages might originate as an involuntary feeling, but which then later no longer depends on those feelings, but rather depends only on conscious commitment.